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UK bestseller, Sunday Times, December 2023<BR><BR>'I love Dr Nicole LePera. She helps me a lot.' GWYNETH PALTROW<BR><BR>'A practical and inspiring primer on how to extend true connection and love to others and to our hurting world.' DR GABOR MATE¿<BR><BR>'A loving, patient, and powerful guide to creating happy, fulfilling life relationships of all kinds. How to Be the Love You Seek is a masterwork of awareness and compassion.' JAY SHETTY<BR><BR>A radical new path to revolutionise your relationships <BR><BR>Why are our closest relationships so often a source of more stress than solace? Whether the relationship is with a romantic partner, a parent, child, friend or colleague, the dynamic is frequently the same - you'd like the relationship to change for the better, yet nothing you try seems to work. <BR><BR>Author of international bestseller How to Do the Work, Dr Nicole LePera has heard these frustrating patterns of loneliness, disconnection, and resentment described time and again, both from patients in her clinical practice and from her global online community @the.holistic.psychologist. In this groundbreaking book she offers a new path to healing our relationships by tapping into the power of the heart.<BR><BR>How to Be the Love You Seek harnesses the latest scientific research to teach us how to recognise our dysfunctional patterns, identify their roots in our earliest relationships, break painful cycles, build security and share compassion with ourselves and others. <BR><BR>Through stories, exercises, journal prompts, and other practical tools, Dr LePera empowers us first to strengthen our foundation of self-love, paving the way for deeper, more harmonious connections with those around us.<BR><BR>When you become the love you seek, you have the power to transform every relationship, from your most intimate partnerships to the bonds that hold our communities together.

DR. Nicole LePera son yillarda dunya capinda milyonlarca insanin hayatta kalma modundan cikip sevdikleri özgun hayatlari bilincli bir sekilde olusturmalarina yardimci olarak, psikolojik kendini iyilestirme alaninin önde gelen sesi haline gelmistir. Dr. Nicole, ilk kitabi Kendini Iyilestirme Isi Nasil Yapilirda okuyucularina kendini iyilestirme konusunda devrim niteliginde butunsel bir cerceve sunmustu. Simdi de Kendi Benliginle Nasil Tanisilirda, her okuyucunun özgun benligini ortaya cikarmasina yardimci olmak uzere tasarlanmis etkilesimli bir calisma kitabi paylasiyor. Hepimiz sikismislik, aci ve kendine zarar verme döngulerine yol acan, gecmisimizin urunleri olan sartlandirilmis aliskanliklara ve kaliplara gireriz. Ancak Dr. Nicoleun de paylastigi gibi, artik bize hizmet etmeyen davranislara uyanmak ve bu davranislari degistirmek icin dogustan gelen bir yetenege sahibiz ve bu yetenek kendimizin en yuksek versiyonlarina adim atmamizi saglar. Gunlerimizi dolduran ve mevcut benliklerimizi olusturan fiziksel, zihinsel ve duygusal kaliplari, nesnel ve sefkatli bir sekilde gözlemleyerek gelecege neyi tasimak istemedigimizi daha net görebiliriz. Bu kitap uzerinde calisirken ve uykudan hareket etmeye, yemek yemekten duygusal tepkisellige ve temel inanclara kadar uzanan varsayilan aliskanliklariniza taniklik ederken, bir daha asla Ama nereden baslayacagim diye sormak zorunda kalmayacaksiniz. Kendi Benliginle Nasil Tanisilir devrim niteliginde bir rehber, nazik ve tesvik edici bir yol arkadasi ve icsel olarak kendini iyilestirme isinizi ve dis dunyanizi kökten degistirecek kapsamli bir kendini anlama basyapitidir..

THE #1 INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER'A masterpiece of empowerment - this book changed my life and, trust me, it'll change yours too.' MEL ROBBINS, author of The Let Them Theory'If LePera's Instagram feed is full of aha moments illuminating the inner workings of your psyche, the revelations in the book are more like a full firework display.' Red magazine'The book I wish I had read in my twenties.' ELIZABETH DAY, author of How to FailAs a clinical psychologist, Dr Nicole LePera found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients - and for herself - she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical and spiritual health that equips people with the tools necessary to heal themselves.Now Dr LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world. In How to Do the Work, she offers both a manifesto for self-healing and an essential guide to creating a more vibrant, authentic, and joyful life. Drawing on both scientific research and a variety of healing modalities, Dr LePera helps us recognise how adverse experiences and trauma in childhood live within us, keeping us stuck engaging in unhelpful patterns of codependency, emotional immaturity, and trauma bonds. Unless addressed, these self-sabotaging behaviours can quickly become cyclical, leaving people feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and unwell.In How to Do the Work, Dr LePera offers readers the support and tools that will allow them to break free from destructive behaviours to reclaim and recreate their lives. Nothing short of a paradigm shift, this is a celebration of empowerment that will forever change the way we approach mental wellness and self-care.

If you're ready to stop repeating the past and finally start building the future you deserve, you need to read this book. Mel Robbins, internationally bestselling author of The Let Them Theory and host of The Mel Robbins Podcast<BR><BR>From the internationally bestselling author of How to Do the Work and How to Be the Love You Seek comes a groundbreaking guide to healing our childhood wounds and rediscovering our full potential<BR><BR>As adults, we often fall into patterns that feel irrational or out of character-shutting down, lashing out, people-pleasing, or self-sabotaging. Beneath those reactions lies our inner child, a younger part of us still trying to get its needs met the only way it knows how.<BR><BR>We all carry the imprint of our earliest years. Childhood is brief, yet its impact is lifelong. Some parts of us were met with love while other parts were met with silence, criticism, or disapproval. To survive, we learned to adapt-learning to over perform, to hide, or stay small. Most of us made it through with a mix of love and lack. And many of us still protect the parts of ourselves that once felt unsafe.<BR><BR>While we can't change what happened, we can change how it lives within us and impacts our lives today. Reparenting the Inner Child offers a clear, compassionate path to self-integration, combining practical exercises, somatic tools, and guided reflections to help us create the safety, love, and boundaries we've always needed. Through her holistic framework that models individual development, Dr. LePera explains how we can cultivate the emotional maturity and regulation to respond calmly instead of reacting, to embrace desire instead of shame, and to question the stories we've long believed about who we have to be.<BR><BR>Enlightening, empowering, and clarifying, Reparenting the Inner Child is a book that will stand the test of time as a comprehensive guide for personal development and healing, and a resource that will forever change the way we understand ourselves.

'My favourite Instagram account in the world' DR RANGAN CHATTERJEE<BR><BR>Are you ready to meet your Self?<BR><BR>In recent years, Dr Nicole LePera has become the leading voice in psychological self-healing, helping millions of people around the world rise out of survival mode to consciously create authentic lives they love. In her first book, How to Do the Work, Dr Nicole offered readers a revolutionary holistic framework for self-healing. Now, in How to Meet Your Self, she shares an interactive workbook designed to help every reader uncover their authentic self. <BR><BR>We all fall into conditioned habits and patterns - products of our past - that lead to cycles of stuckness, pain, and self-destruction. But as Dr. Nicole shares, we also have the innate ability to awaken to and change the behaviours that no longer serve us, allowing us to step into the highest versions of ourselves. By objectively and compassionately observing the physical, mental, and emotional patterns that fill our days and create our current selves, we can more clearly see what we do not wish to carry into the future. <BR><BR>As you work through this book and witness your default habits - from sleep to movement to eating, through emotional reactivity and core beliefs - you will never again have to ask, "But where do I start?" How to Meet Your Self is a revolutionary guide, a kind and encouraging companion and a comprehensive masterwork of self-understanding that will radically transform your inner work and outer world.

AN INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER<BR><BR>From the #1 New York Times bestselling author of How to Do the Work and How to Be the Love You Seek comes a groundbreaking guide to healing our childhood wounds and rediscovering our full potential<BR><BR> As adults, we often fall into patterns that feel irrational or out of character-shutting down, lashing out, people-pleasing, or self-sabotaging. Beneath those reactions lies our inner child, a younger part of us still trying to get its needs met the only way it knows how.<BR><BR> We all carry the imprint of our earliest years. Childhood is brief, yet its impact is lifelong. Some parts of us were met with love while other parts were met with silence, criticism, or disapproval. To survive, we learned to adapt-learning to over perform, to hide, or stay small. Most of us made it through with a mix of love and lack. And many of us still protect the parts of ourselves that once felt unsafe.<BR><BR> While we can't change what happened, we can change how it lives within us and impacts our lives today. Reparenting the Inner Child offers a clear, compassionate path to self-integration, combining practical exercises, somatic tools, and guided reflections to help us create the safety, love, and boundaries we've always needed. Through her holistic framework that models individual development, Dr. LePera explains how we can cultivate the emotional maturity and regulation to respond calmly instead of reacting, to embrace desire instead of shame, and to question the stories we've long believed about who we have to be.<BR><BR> Enlightening, empowering, and clarifying, Reparenting the Inner Child is a book that will stand the test of time as a comprehensive guide for personal development and healing, and a resource that will forever change the way we understand ourselves.

INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER"A practical, reader-friendly, and inspiring primer on how to extend true connection and love to others.” —Gabor Maté M.D., New York Times bestselling author of The Myth of NormalFrom the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller How to Do the Work comes this paradigm-shifting guide to healing your relationships, beginning with the one you have with yourself.Relationships have always been essential to human survival. Our bodies and brains are programmed to seek out connection, whether familial, romantic, or platonic. And yet, these vital bonds are often at the root of our deepest suffering. While our hearts are primed for compassionate connection, our nervous systems—which store all our past hurts and disappointments—are wired for threat and negativity.For decades, leading relationship advice has maintained that successful relationships require a specific compromise—that we must change our authentic expression to better meet the needs of others, and vice versa. It may sound reasonable in theory, but as Dr. LePera explains, this approach is nothing less than a recipe for a lifetime of resentment.In How to Be the Love You Seek, #1 New York Times bestselling author Dr. LePera—whose integrative, holistic approach to psychology has attracted an international audience of millions—offers a new path to healing our relationships. Harnessing the latest scientific research, she teaches us to recognize how unmet needs from our earliest relationships create our current, dysfunctional relationship patterns, and leave us in a state of constant internal threat, even with those closest to us.This book, the last in her “How To” trilogy, illuminates the way out of trauma bonds and into relationships rooted in mutual respect and compassion. In it, you will learn how to create safety in your own body and mind; identify your unmet needs; develop emotional resilience; cultivate heart coherence to build deep emotional connections with others; and maintain healthy interdependence in our communities.Whether you struggle to maintain the kinds of relationships you want, or are facing a specific challenge with a spouse, partner, parent, sibling, child, friend, or colleague—Dr. LePera teaches us how to break painful cycles and reconnect with the wisdom, appreciation, and compassion that lives in each of our hearts. It is our heart’s innate capacity to love that is the true source of all healing. When we tap into that power, we can become the love we seek.Complete with stories, exercises, journal prompts, and other practical tools, How to Be the Love You Seek offers a healing roadmap for all generations of cycle-breakers.

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER ·  INSTANT INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLERFrom Dr. Nicole LePera, creator of "the holistic psychologist"—the online phenomenon with more than two million Instagram followers—comes a revolutionary approach to healing that harnesses the power of the self to produce lasting change.As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical and spiritual wellness that equips people with the mind-body healing tools necessary to heal themselves. After experiencing the life-changing results herself, she began to share what she'd learned with others—and soon "The Holistic Psychologist" was born.Now, Dr. LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world. In How to Do the Work, she offers both a manifesto for SelfHealing as well as an essential guide to breaking negative patterns and creating a more vibrant, authentic, and joyful life. Drawing on the latest research from a diversity of scientific fields and healing modalities, Dr. LePera helps us recognize how adverse experiences and trauma in childhood live with us, resulting in whole body dysfunction—activating harmful stress responses that keep us stuck engaging in patterns of codependency, emotional immaturity, and trauma bonds. Unless addressed, these self-sabotaging behaviors can quickly become cyclical, leaving people feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and unwell. In How to Do the Work, Dr. LePera offers readers the support and tools that will allow them to break free from destructive behaviors to reclaim and recreate their lives. Nothing short of a paradigm shift, this is a celebration of empowerment that will forever change the way we approach mental wellness and self-care.How can you harness the power of the self to produce lasting change?- Childhood Trauma: Recognize how adverse experiences live with us, resulting in patterns of codependency and emotional immaturity.- The Conscious Self: Move beyond the limitations of traditional psychotherapy by becoming an active participant in creating a more vibrant, authentic, and joyful life.- Reparenting: Learn to break free from self-sabotaging behaviors by equipping yourself with the interdisciplinary tools necessary to heal yourself.- Emotional Maturity: Reclaim and recreate your life with a united philosophy of mental, physical, and spiritual wellness that leads to lasting change.

Sich in Beziehungen gesehen, wertgeschätzt und geliebt fühlen - das wollen wir alle. Tun wir das nicht, suchen wir die Fehler häufig bei unserem Gegenüber. Doch wie 'Holistic Psychologist' Nicole LePera betont, können wir uns nicht auf andere verlassen, wenn es darum geht sich wertvoll und verbunden zu fühlen - dies muss aus uns selbst kommen. Auf Basis der faszinierenden Erkenntnisse der Mind-Body-Medizin zeigt sie, wie die Beziehungen zu unseren frühesten Bezugspersonen unsere Verbindungen als Erwachsene prägen und wie wir uns aus diesen Mustern befreien können: indem wir selbst Verantwortung übernehmen für unsere ungestillten Bedürfnisse, frühkindliche Wunden und Konditionierungen erkennen und für ein Gefühl der Sicherheit in Körper und Geist sorgen. Erst dann können Beziehungen wirklich gelingen.<BR>Mit vielen wirkungsvollen Übungen und Impulsen.

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER · INSTANT INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLERFrom Dr. Nicole LePera, creator of "the holistic psychologist"—the online phenomenon with more than two million Instagram followers—comes a revolutionary approach to healing that harnesses the power of the self to produce lasting change.As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical, and spiritual wellness that equips people with the mind-body healing tools necessary to heal themselves. After experiencing the life-changing results herself, she began to share what she’d learned with others—and soon “The Holistic Psychologist” was born.Now, Dr. LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world. In How to Do the Work, she offers both a manifesto for self healing as well as an essential guide to breaking negative patterns and creating a more vibrant, authentic, and joyful life. Drawing on the latest research from a diversity of scientific fields and healing modalities, Dr. LePera helps us recognize how adverse experiences and trauma in childhood live with us, resulting in whole body dysfunction—activating harmful stress responses that keep us stuck engaging in patterns of codependency, emotional immaturity, and trauma bonds. Unless addressed, these self-sabotaging behaviors can quickly become cyclical, leaving people feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and unwell.In How to Do the Work, Dr. LePera offers readers the support and tools that will allow them to break free from destructive behaviors to reclaim and recreate their lives. Nothing short of a paradigm shift, this is a celebration of empowerment that will forever change the way we approach mental wellness and self-care.How can you harness the power of the self to produce lasting change?This Book Will Help You…- Identify and break free from limiting beliefs and behaviors- Understand how childhood trauma shapes your adult life- Heal your nervous system and reconnect with your body- Build emotional resilience and self-awareness- Create conscious habits that align with your authentic self

Der revolutionäre Selbstheilungsansatz"Nicole LePera ruft zu einem lebensverändernden Perspektivwechsel auf: Sie ermächtigt uns dazu, uns nicht auf andere zu verlassen, sondern unsere Heilung selbst zu steuern. Mit ihrem Buch bekommen wir das Werkzeug dafür in die Hand."<BR>- Dr. Sheila de Liz, Ärztin und Bestseller-AutorinMit ihrer Plattform "The Holistic Psychologist" hat die US-amerikanische Psychologin Nicole LePera nicht weniger als eine Revolution auf dem Psychologie-Sektor begründet.<BR>Ihr Ansatz: Fast jeder von uns hat in der Kindheit Traumata und seelische Verletzungen erlitten, die unser Leben nachhaltig beeinflussen. Und wir selbst haben es in der Hand, uns davon zu befreien - wenn wir die richtigen Tools kennen, uns die Erkenntnisse der Mind-Body-Medizin zunutze machen und unsere Selbstheilung auf allen Ebenen anstoßen.Mit LePeras ganzheitlicher, einzigartiger Anleitung zur mentalen Selbstheilung gelingt es, die tieferen Ursachen von seelischen wie psychosomatischen Problemen zu erkennen, sich von selbstsabotierenden Mustern zu lösen und emotionale Wunden nachhaltig zu heilen.

Heile dein Inneres Kind - Werde die Person, die du sein möchtestIn ihrer einzigartigen Art des Denkens und basierend auf den neuesten Erkenntnissen der Wissenschaft bietet die weltbekannte Psychologin Dr. Nicole LePera einen Weg, wie wir eine Verbindung in unsere Vergangenheit herstellen, unsere frühkindlichen Wunden und Traumata heilen und als bewusste, ganze Erwachsene im Hier und Jetzt leben können.Dieser New York Times-Bestseller zeigt eindrucksvoll, wie unsere frühen Erfahrungen unser Verhalten und unsere Beziehungen im Erwachsenenalter prägen. Es beleuchtet, wie wir oft unbewusst in alten Mustern gefangen bleiben, die uns daran hindern, uns wirklich erfüllt und verbunden zu fühlen und wie wir diese Muster durch die 5 Säulen des Re-Parenting transformieren können.Mit zahlreichen praktischen Übungen, Reflexionen und Impulsen bietet Nicole LePera einen völlig neuen und ganzheitlichen Ansatz zur Arbeit mit dem Inneren Kind - einen Weg zu mehr Selbstakzeptanz, Heilung und innerem Frieden.